I dreamt of being a mother of three,i.e when im done with school and get married.
I finished secondary school about furthering my education to d university to study law but that didn’t happen, you know why? I became a single parent ( black mom) of a two months old angel(girl).
It isn’t easy but its fun. Its not easy in the aspect that I’m a students and a mom,In rhe middle of tje night she cries,I check for what’s wrong,i change her diapers,No,sand then I adjust it a bit,den I feed her for an hour and cuddle her, the stomach upset comes up…mothers u know that seeing your baby in pain makes u wish it was you and not your baby right?….yes because I feel it.
So she can’t sleep …I play with her so she dosent feel lonely. The thing is I do it all alone… Father,missing after action (MAA).
Its fun in the aspect that I wake up in the morning and the person I see is is that cute face staring at me,there is nothing more sweet than that to me,or that face she wears when she tries to get up from her bed with that tiny cute morn,that is fun, its also fun when she opens her mouth to laugh and its only gum and no teeth….God I can imagine that.
Motherhood is the most interesting,hard yet fun, joyful part in a woman’s life, because no Mather how your baby came into this world,whether he/she has a father or not you will always strive hard to see your kids happy.
Mothers hope I’m right? Yes,because I’m a mom now.
So u might be thinking why I didn’t consider a baby sitter, don’t worry about that, I’ll tell u on my next post.
Any mom on earth should never be taken for granted nomather what they di ,in fact mother always be proud of yrself…with or without men.
No offence men in the building. Don’t get me wrong.